Recipe For Two Lovers

Take happiness and laughter

mix thoroughly with romance.

Add hugs,

pecks, and sprinkle with kisses.

Bind with pleasure and bake with faith.

Serve with endless love.

Someone

Someone in my heart beyond all my pride,

Holds a secret desire so intense deep inside.

Imprisoned with all my passion and love,

Unknown to anyone but the lord up above.

A desire for someone to cherish and hold,

The need for love to call my own.

Someone who keeps me shining day and night,

Someone to kiss and make up with after a fight.

Someone who appreciates and respects all I can be,

Someone who’s strong enough to commit and love only me.

Someone who will be there to kiss away my tears,

Secure my doubts and release my fears.

Someone who can restore my faith in love once again.

This love is like a dream that has yet to become true,

Or to believed until I found you...

Feeling Lonely?

The feeling of being empty inside can make us lonely, or even depressed. I have a friend who got cheated on by his girlfriend about three months ago. She felt she didn’t have a future with him. Even though he said that both of them made mistakes in their relationships, he felt that he could have treated her better. Both of them have strong characters, so they clash with each other. I told him not too worry about it because everything happens for a reason. There were many flaws in his relationships and he felt somewhat good that it ended. He spent a year and half with his ex-girlfriend, and he didn’t like how it ended. Like I said, everything happens for a reason.

During his three months of being single, he has been dating around. From time to time, he keeps telling me that he missed having a girlfriend. At this point, I know he feels lonely because he is used to having someone on his side. He likes to dance, hang out, and eat at good restaurants with a person he loves. Even though he is recuperating by dating around, he doesn’t want to feel lonely.

Overall, being lonely can help you get stronger. You will have more time for yourself so you can evaluate what you want in life, love, and relationships. If you feel lonely, try to date other people, or hang out with friends and family. Just don’t let loneliness overtake you!

How to Have a Happy Love Life

You haven't yet noticed the other person's flaws and it's as if the sun rises and sets with this new love in your life. Unfortunately, this phase doesn't last. The newness eventually wears off as reality sets in. The good news is that with the right mindset and attitude, you can keep the magic in your relationship.
1. Decide that you are going to have happy relationship. Anything that you ever do will begins with a thought. Visualize yourself and your partner in a happy and healthy relationship.
2. Handle conflict in a loving way. Every couple has disagreements. The way you handle them will help determine the success of your relationship. Don't insist on being right. Instead, focus on understanding your partner's point of view and be a good listener. This will help keep your partner from becoming defensive and he or she will appreciate being heard.
3. Be responsible for your own happiness. Understand that it's not your partner's job to make you happy. In the early stages of your relationship, your partner may feel flattered to know that you depend on him or her for fulfillment, but after a while, they will feel drained and suffocated. True happiness comes from within. Be your own source of happiness and that will make your relationship much sweeter.
4. Don't be consumed by jealousy. This can do serious damage to a relationship. The poet Maya Angelou once said that jealousy is like salt. In small amounts, it can add spice to a relationship but too much is unhealthy.
5. Don't take your partner for granted. Remind yourself why you fell in love with this person in the first place. Focus on your partner's positive attributes and remember that no one is perfect.