Getting a Guy to Fall in Love With You

Do you feel that the guy you are seeing right now is the right one? Do you want him to fall in love with you? Do you want him to commit to you and never leave you? If you desire these things, let me tell you something. You're not alone.

I craved for such things too. I desired to have fulfilling long term relationships with men. But unfortunately for me, none of them really worked out. I was often left broken hearted after a relationship. And it used to be either because of my insecurities or the wrong guy. I had always been attracting the wrong guy and I for once felt completely hopeless. I truly believed that I'd never find the right guy again and felt that I'd have to die alone.

But you know what? I overcame all of it by learning the exact things that was necessary to put me in control of my relationships with men. As soon as I started using these tricks, things began to change and the right men were drawn to me like a magnet. The great thing now is that I have a great boyfriend with whom I have been having a long term relationship and who I feel is the right one.

If I can do it, so can you. There's a misconception about what attracts men. Many women think that it's sex and looks. Actually it's not. Learning this secret saved my time and helped me work on it. By working on it, I was able to drastically change my relationship and my life.

Here are the super effective secrets to get a guy to fall in love with you ultra fast...

Emotional Switches. Men tend to feel attracted to women who make them feel great feelings more than any other thing. If you can make him feel the right feelings, he is going to be attracted to you and will fall in love with you. There are some women who naturally have the power to trigger these switches in the right order. Unfortunately, I didn't. But it can be regained back by adopting a romantic attitude.

Give him space. Don't expect your guy to commit too soon and don't nag him for anything. It will make him feel insecure and will make him do all that he can do to get away from you. Give him space and focus on the present moment. Try to have as much fun as possible in the moment. This creates real intimacy and bond which then leads to true love.

Love and Fun Are One in the Same With You

Can you make him associate happiness with you? How do you create a correlation of fun and you as one concept? Is love more exciting then society makes us believe? Society makes us believe with media that love is an almighty powerful force of giddy smiles and walks in the rain but exhilaration in love might be more than Goosebumps from his kiss.

You need to create that notion in his head that love and fun are one in the same with you around. He links fun and good times to you while you increase your chances of nabbing a man for the long term. It's basic logic that the more he enjoys being with you the harder it is for him to walk away when there are no bad feelings or awkward small talk. Love should be fun, not a complicated measure or anxious waiting game for I love yous and tingly feelings. Love and fun are one in the same with you remember?

Give him some excitement outside the traditional fancy restaurant and wine. Experiment with new dates you have never done before. Go to a roller rink, football game, whale watching excursion, a day at the beach, watch the sunset an hour before to talk before it starts to fall. Dinner, wine, and a boat ride at dusk is a much better date. Now love and fun are one in the same with you.

A final touch can be something silly like Twister at your place, watching SNL, a paintball war, ice cream at Baskin Robbins, or finding constellations in the night. The point is to create more opportunities to make him laugh and enjoy you. You two have time to connect with conversation, smiles, and new emotions swirling inside. It's a nice feeling to find that one person to share all the good times with. When love and fun are one in the same with you, it's all smiles from less bad days.

Someone

Someone in my heart beyond all my pride,

Holds a secret desire so intense deep inside.

Imprisoned with all my passion and love,

Unknown to anyone but the lord up above.

A desire for someone to cherish and hold,

The need for love to call my own.

Someone who keeps me shining day and night,

Someone to kiss and make up with after a fight.

Someone who appreciates and respects all I can be,

Someone who’s strong enough to commit and love only me.

Someone who will be there to kiss away my tears,

Secure my doubts and release my fears.

Someone who can restore my faith in love once again.

This love is like a dream that has yet to become true,

Or to believed until I found you...