Showing posts with label Real Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Real Love. Show all posts

Monday, June 21, 2010

Someone


Someone in my heart beyond all my pride,
Holds a secret desire so intense deep inside.
Imprisoned with all my passion and love,
Unknown to anyone but the lord up above.
A desire for someone to cherish and hold,
The need for love to call my own.
Someone who keeps me shining day and night,
Someone to kiss and make up with after a fight.
Someone who appreciates and respects all I can be,
Someone who’s strong enough to commit and love only me.
Someone who will be there to kiss away my tears,
Secure my doubts and release my fears.
Someone who can restore my faith in love once again.
This love is like a dream that has yet to become true,
Or to believed until I found you...

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Secrets to Real Love


How do some die old together and others divorce after twenty years of marriage? As time goes on, what can you two do to keep the love strong? Do you have what it takes to go the distance? It's hard to understand but divorce and break ups happen even after decades together. The secrets to making it to your Silver anniversary are basic principles to master now.

The secrets to real love is a "friends first" concept. Studies continuously show that couples who had a strong foundation of friendship in the beginning of their relationship lived happier and longer together. They had fun at the movies, biking to the beach, and going to the drive in with friends after the diner. The secrets to real love are about fun and time together just happy to be in the moment.

Be comfortable individually to make your friendship and relationship it's happiest. Happy people are more likely to be in happy relationships. Get to the point where you can fart in front of him, be comfortable without make up, and have a pimple or two on your chin. When you are confident enough to sing karaoke, play charades, and comfortably be yourself in every way then you have some of the secrets to real love. Confidence lets you be honest to never fake personality. Silliness is ok!

Sex should come after two or three months of dating at least to really see if the relationship is real. History and studies of successful long-term relationships prove waiting for sex helps you stay together in the long run compared to those who had sex sooner instead of working on their compatibility. Those who had sex on the first date or around that time do not fare well for ever after. Working on your bond of emotional passion works like foreplay. What they say about love and sex is true; love makes sex feel amazingly better.

Best friends forever, heart and a caring personality, confidence and comfort with each other, fun and making sex a reaction of honest emotions are the secrets to real love.