Monday, June 21, 2010

Recipe For Two Lovers

Take happiness and laughter

mix thoroughly with romance.

Add hugs,

pecks, and sprinkle with kisses.

Bind with pleasure and bake with faith.

Serve with endless love.


Someone in my heart beyond all my pride,
Holds a secret desire so intense deep inside.
Imprisoned with all my passion and love,
Unknown to anyone but the lord up above.
A desire for someone to cherish and hold,
The need for love to call my own.
Someone who keeps me shining day and night,
Someone to kiss and make up with after a fight.
Someone who appreciates and respects all I can be,
Someone who’s strong enough to commit and love only me.
Someone who will be there to kiss away my tears,
Secure my doubts and release my fears.
Someone who can restore my faith in love once again.
This love is like a dream that has yet to become true,
Or to believed until I found you...

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Does He Love You? - Ideas to Help You Decide

How can you know if your man really does love you? Is it good enough if he just says it? How important are his actions in letting you know how much he feels for you? Words are not enough because people don't always speak the complete truth. If you want to know if your man really does love you, you have to watch for some other signs. Here they are.

He tells you that he loves you. Yes, we said that this is not enough; however, if you never hear the words, then he probably isn't feeling it. You need more than his verbal declarations of love, but, it is a good place to start.

He shows you in different, thoughtful ways. Unfortunately, guys don't always realize the way you want them to show you their love. However, you need to understand that if he is making the effort to show you in his own way, then this is good enough and you should value his attempts.

Your man is there to take care of you. Whether you are feeling ill, or struggling with some life issue, if your guy instinctively wants to be there for you, they you can feel confident that he does love you. No man will freely take on more frustration or deal with extra problems unless they feel deeply for their woman.

He always gives his support and encouragement. When two people are in love, they tend to brush aside their own opinions when it comes to their mate's hopes and desires. Does your guy offer his unconditional support for your ideas, dreams, and ambitions? If you feel that you can count on your guy through thick and thin, then you should definitely hold on to him tightly.

Finally, a definite indication of deep feelings is commitment. When a man commits to an exclusive, monogamous relationship, there should be no doubt that he really does love you. Commitment is difficult for most men, so if you have it from your guy, you really don't need to question his emotions.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Feeling Lonely?

The feeling of being empty inside can make us lonely, or even depressed. I have a friend who got cheated on by his girlfriend about three months ago. She felt she didn’t have a future with him. Even though he said that both of them made mistakes in their relationships, he felt that he could have treated her better. Both of them have strong characters, so they clash with each other. I told him not too worry about it because everything happens for a reason. There were many flaws in his relationships and he felt somewhat good that it ended. He spent a year and half with his ex-girlfriend, and he didn’t like how it ended. Like I said, everything happens for a reason.

During his three months of being single, he has been dating around. From time to time, he keeps telling me that he missed having a girlfriend. At this point, I know he feels lonely because he is used to having someone on his side. He likes to dance, hang out, and eat at good restaurants with a person he loves. Even though he is recuperating by dating around, he doesn’t want to feel lonely.

Overall, being lonely can help you get stronger. You will have more time for yourself so you can evaluate what you want in life, love, and relationships. If you feel lonely, try to date other people, or hang out with friends and family. Just don’t let loneliness overtake you!

Secrets to Real Love

How do some die old together and others divorce after twenty years of marriage? As time goes on, what can you two do to keep the love strong? Do you have what it takes to go the distance? It's hard to understand but divorce and break ups happen even after decades together. The secrets to making it to your Silver anniversary are basic principles to master now.

The secrets to real love is a "friends first" concept. Studies continuously show that couples who had a strong foundation of friendship in the beginning of their relationship lived happier and longer together. They had fun at the movies, biking to the beach, and going to the drive in with friends after the diner. The secrets to real love are about fun and time together just happy to be in the moment.

Be comfortable individually to make your friendship and relationship it's happiest. Happy people are more likely to be in happy relationships. Get to the point where you can fart in front of him, be comfortable without make up, and have a pimple or two on your chin. When you are confident enough to sing karaoke, play charades, and comfortably be yourself in every way then you have some of the secrets to real love. Confidence lets you be honest to never fake personality. Silliness is ok!

Sex should come after two or three months of dating at least to really see if the relationship is real. History and studies of successful long-term relationships prove waiting for sex helps you stay together in the long run compared to those who had sex sooner instead of working on their compatibility. Those who had sex on the first date or around that time do not fare well for ever after. Working on your bond of emotional passion works like foreplay. What they say about love and sex is true; love makes sex feel amazingly better.

Best friends forever, heart and a caring personality, confidence and comfort with each other, fun and making sex a reaction of honest emotions are the secrets to real love.