The man I love does not want me to love him. his actions do not match his words. I dont know how he weasled himself under my skin. He's far from perfect. He's raw and uneducated. He's tacky and sometimes heartless. He's funny, loyal, and broken. He has consumed me. I love him without reason, it makes him uncomfortable. I wish I could stop my heart from wanting more. I wish my dreams did not insist on him. I do not know how to be without him..... The man I love has said 'no thank you'His words have left me broken.....
Girls are a bit apprehensive when it comes to their relationship with a guy.
Tips to Know if He Loves You:-
A very obvious one when he takes interests in your matters like work schedule, it means he is really concerned with you and loves you.
Whenever a guy keeps a track on your habits, remembers whatever you do and say simply indicates his love for you.
When a guy wants to spend more time with you, dates out with you at places of your choice and share the your favorite pastimes then he is madly in love with you.
If he gives more importance to his friends even if you are sick or in need of him shows his lack of interest in you.
Changing of topic when you discuss about your future with him is not a good sign of a healthy relationship with your love.
If he doesn't want to spend time with you or don't ever want to go out with you in public and never introduces you to his friends mean he does not love you.
When he calls you or message you just to chitchat with you means he deeply loves you and was finding any reason to talk to you.
If he is really concerned about you and loves you then he would always take out time from his busy schedule.
When he keeps looking you when you are around and suddenly takes off his eyes when you look at him shows he's in love with you.
When he praises about you to his friends, family and others means he truly loves you. His every action will make you believe he loves you.
If he changes his plans or cancels them last minute then he is surely avoiding you. If he is trying to be friendly with you and tries to make an effort to know more about you shows signs of love for you.
You can make out from a person's eyes. The person in love with you has special shine in his eyes when he's talking to you.
Hai Dil main jo usko hotho per utaru kaise Apni uljhi hui taqdeer savaru kaise Dil main arman base hai na jane kitne sil gye hoth usko apna pukaru kaise paas hoker bhi wo door sa kyu lagta hai jukh he jati hai nikhai to niharu kaise Jindgi mange usko her saans main her lamhe main wo sath na aye to usko gujaru kiase.
It’s unfortunately very easy to get so caught up in life and routine that you forget to show affection to those most important to you. This trend starts honestly enough but quickly you realize that years have gone by.
If your relationship has become stale or if you tend to take your friends for granted, here are some ways to show your love for those around you. As you consider these, some of you may find that the time is not the issue; it's the technique and act of verbalizing your feelings. Therefore, go in knowing that you can accomplish these without saying a word. As most of us know, actions can speak louder than words...
1. Leave Notes (in Unusual Places) Perhaps life has become so busy that you feel like your schedule rarely coincides with that of your partner or kids. How about leaving them a note somewhere unexpected? You’ve probably all heard of kids having little notes from their mom’s in their lunch bags – that’s one place to start, but how about a note by the kettle, in the fridge, on the pillow, on the computer screen...? This can become a bit of a game as you compete to leave a note in the most unusual places!
2. Hug Someone Physical gestures mean a huge amount, and a hug can be just what a loved one needs to put a big smile on their face. Whether it’s snuggling up on the sofa with your partner or giving your kids a goodnight hug, being held and warmed by another person is a perfect way to feel loved.
3. Write A Poem A time-honored way to say “I love you” is to write a poem. You don’t have to be Shakespeare – look for sincere, original ways to tell someone that you love them. Try not to fall back on hackneyed phrases about their beautiful blue eyes or their rosy red lips; write about something that’s meaningful to you, perhaps that dimple on their chin, or the way they laugh at your jokes.
4. Give An Unexpected Gift I’m sure you give your loved ones gifts on their birthday, at Christmas, and on special occasions like Valentine’s day. But how about bringing a gift completely at random? An unexpected present is a moment of pure joy for the recipient and the giver, and it needn’t be anything expensive. A few of their favorite chocolates, a small bunch of flowers, a book which you know they’ll enjoy ... for a few dollars, you have the perfect way to say “I love you”.
5. Do The Chores (Without Being Asked) For many people, another extremely welcomed gift is someone else doing the chores! If it’s your partner who usually cleans the kitchen, why not do it and surprise him/her? If you normally have to be nagged to vacuum, get it done without being asked. Finding little ways to make someone else’s day smoother lets them know how much they mean to you.
6. Hold Hands Like hugging, holding hands is something that we often neglect to do when a relationship becomes cozy and familiar. Try taking your partner’s hand when walking down the street, or hold their hands across a table in a restaurant. Being in contact physically helps you feel closer emotionally. This is especially important if you need to talk through a difficult issue or problem. Holding hands can also be a visible demonstration of support if your partner is upset or feeling down.
7. Make A Special Meal If Friday nights usually mean ordering takeout, why not offer to cook for a change? Make a special meal for your partner (you don’t need an excuse for this – it doesn’t have to be Valentine’s day or an anniversary!) Include their favorite foods, take a few minutes to set the table, to light candles and put music on, and your usual forgettable evening slumped on the sofa can become a night to remember...
8. Dress Up In the early stages of a relationship, you probably made the effort to look your best. Of course it’s nice to get to the point whereyou can lounge around in your jammies or your over sized, hole-ridden t-shirt... but occasionally getting dressed up can rekindle that early excitement in the relationship. Why not go out to a “swankier” restaurant than usual (it doesn’t have to be much more expensive), or just get dressed up in your party clothes for a special meal for two at home?
9. Give a Foot/Shoulder Rub Modern life is stressful and many of us have aches and pains caused by tense muscles. A shoulder rub, back rub or foot rub is a wonderful way to tell your partner “I love you”. It demonstrates that their physical well being and comfort is important to you, and it’s also a great way to reinforce physical and emotional closeness.
10. Listen to Them It’s easy to talk over people or to tune out most of what they’re saying whilst reading the newspaper or chatting online with friends. Listen actively to your partner – when they want to talk, put down what you’re doing, and focus all your attention on them. Listen for what they don’t say; unvoiced concerns or worries, or hints at what they’d really like. Nod and make eye-contact to show that you’re paying attention.
Girls are a bit apprehensive when it comes to their relationship with a guy. 
Hai Dil main jo usko hotho per utaru kaise
